Intercultural marriages are between two persons, one belonging to the Jewish culture that decides to form a binding commitment with a person outside of the Jewish culture.
An Intercultural wedding ceremony In Israel can be held between:
1. Two Israeli citizens of different cultures or faiths
2. An Israeli citizen and a foreign non-Jewish citizen
3. Two foreign citizens, one of them Jewish.
4. Two foreign citizens, both them non-Jewish.
Intercultural marriages assume that identities are not mutually disqualified. Joining one culture does not mean ruling out, or erasing the other. Even in same culture marriages it is not recommended forcing your beliefs on your spouse, let alone in an inter-cultural situation. Moreover, identities can not be eradicated or totally converted because they are not rigid and monolithic. Identities in our day and age are dynamic, fluid and elusive. Even if one of the partners will seemingly give up his or hers identity, it does not mean their identities are erased. It is rather suppressed. Thus, expunging one's identity is not a recipe or a guarantee to a happy and harmonious relationship.
Every marriage is Intercultural
This important guiding principle to interfaith/intercultural wedding ceremony was drawn by Rabbi Adam Chalom2.
Every couple has to combine different family traditions, personal styles and many other details. Religion and culture can simply be two more to add to the list. Interfaith and Intercultural marriages are different – some couples are “interfaith” in that they believe very different things; a Humanistic Jew and an Orthodox Jew would be an “interfaith” relationship. Some couples are better described as “intercultural” – from different cultural backgrounds but believing the same things about life. Each kind of inter-relationship has its particular challenges, but with communication, cooperation, and generosity both can be successful.
How to Arrange An Intercultural Wedding in Israel?
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1. Taken from "How to Marry an Israeli? A Comprehensive Guide, To the Intercultural Wedding Ceremony In the Jewish Tradition, in Israel", By Rabbi Nardy Grün. booklet for married coupels.
2. "Wedding Information Booklet", by Rabbi Adam Chalom - Kol Hadash Humanistic Congregation of Highland Park, Illinoi. for details: www.
Rabbi Nardy Grun